We are thrilled to finally announce that Jarrett has accepted the position of Assistant Dean of Students at Princeton University!! It has been a whirlwind few weeks, and with being on vacation, house hunting and packing, all before Jarrett's start date of August 13, we are excited, tired, and a little scared all at the same time. God has been so good to our family, and through this entire process, it has been so clear how He has opened (and closed) doors in this great adventure.
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| We visited Princeton last year while we were in Philadelphia... little did we know :) |
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| Learning to walk... and will be running in the courtyard next month! |
Our experiences at Pepperdine have been wonderful, and it is really hard to leave our sweet friends, cozy apartment and who can forget that ocean view. Some might think that we're crazy, but when this opportunity presented itself, we knew that it was meant to be. Jarrett was really never on an all out "job search," but we agreed that if a job had the right title at a great school, he would apply. I would check the online job boards, and would occasionally email an opening to him. He was pretty selective about the jobs he chose to apply for, and last year he applied for one job at UNC Chapel Hill. He was offered the position, but at the last minute decided that it wasn't the right decision to move his newly pregnant wife and little girl across the country. This was news to me, because I totally thought it was the perfect job --- it was really hard for me to let it go (those who know me also know I am pretty stubborn!). We had to trust that God put the interpretation and fear into Jarrett's heart for a reason, and I had to trust (and submit willingly) that as the head of our house, Jarrett knew what was best for our family.
Then, earlier this summer, there were three dream jobs that came available at great universities. For two of the three jobs, Jarrett had an "in" where he actually knew people in the department, or his reference knew the hiring manager. We were so excited when he got phone interviews with both in the same week! We thought, "Oh my gosh... this is what we we've been waiting for!" And then, we waited... and waited.... until the next week, as one right after the other he received the dreaded "No Thank You" email. It was hard to hear "No", especially when we thought it was a sure thing. One of my favorite Jeremy Camp songs kept replaying in my head, "I will walk by faith, even when I cannot see." And not surprisingly, God has such an amazing way of comforting us.... the day after he found out he didn't get the jobs, Pepperdine offered J a promotion. We thought, "Praise God!" We were still disappointed about the other jobs, but had a sense of hope and peace knowing that God was with us.
We had all but forgotten about Princeton, especially since Jarrett didn't even know anyone there, and he thought if the other lower ranked universities didn't want him, then a # 1 ranked, Ivy League university surely wouldn't. You know the quote, "Want to make God laugh? Tell Him your plans." Little did we know there was a completely different plan for us.
We had settled ourselves into enjoying another year at Pepperdine, and I signed Lindsay up for gymnastics and our Bible study. Jarrett got an email the following Tuesday evening, and to our surprise, it was from Princeton; and though it was pretty short, they wanted to set up a phone call for a "
short chat at your earliest convenience." Well the next day, after an hour and a half phone call, he was scheduled for a face-to-face on Tuesday! Jarrett said he was nervous until the day of the interview, then a peace came over him. After a marathon day of interviewing at none other than Woody Woo's (what Princetonian's call Woodrow Wilson's campus home while serving as University President), Jarrett received a phone call on Friday night that would forever change our lives. On the other end of the line, the dean said "Welcome to Princeton!"
Since that email came in, we have been just blown away at God's perfect timing, and provision. As Christians we do not believe in coincidences, but in His ideal plan. Jarrett and I are so humbled, and completely grateful for all the blessings in our life. It is crystal clear to us, and I hope to you, that God uses our lives for His glory.... HE is the heart of our marriage, children, and careers. I wanted to share our story with you because it is a testimony for how BIG God is --- He opened doors and created a path that we couldn't have even dared to dream. First with Pepperdine, then with Princeton. As we make this huge move across the country, away from family and the familiar, my heart is sad, yet excited too. My sense of purpose and walk with Jesus has grown here at Pepperdine, and more than anything, I know He has been preparing me to be the wife and mother that can make the transition possible to "Tigertown!"